Why not split the difference and have him be given notice that he's to deploy before the engagement ceremony, so that he needs to leave right after? That way you can have the torment of wondering if he'll come back at all against the backdrop of what should be a very happy moment.
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Date: 2011-01-03 02:52 am (UTC)